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I Need Help On My Pregnancy :[

Ok I Was Reading The Other Pregnancy Posting And How Everyone Kept Thinkn They Were Fake.. Ok Well That One 11 Yr Old Was.. But Ok. Anyways... I Would Like Some Feedback And Help On Mine. :[

Im 17, And So Is My Boyfriend. Today, August 14, 2008, Officially Makes Me 15 Weeks. Idk How Much that Is In Month Cause The Doctors Just Use Weeks.. I Know I'm In My Second Trimester.

I Ended Up Getting Pregnant [No Duh] And I Can't Bring Myself To Abort It.. Or To Even Let It Go For Adoption.. My Only Choice Left Is Keeping It, Which.. I'm Ok With. Recently My Parents Ending Up Spliting, And They're Now Getting A Divorce.. So.. I Have A Lot Of Crap To Deal With.. Now We Are Moving To An Apartment, Just Me And My Mom. My Sister Is Going Back To College, And My Brother Is Living With My Daddy At His Uncles, He'll Come Over Every Other Week.

So Already I Got A Lot Of Crap Going On. My Sister [Who Is 19] Is Just All.. Pissy About It.
She'll Snap At Me Saying I Need To Give It Up Cause I'm Going To Give It A Sh1t Life. You See My Boyfriend Is Hispanic.. He's From Chicago, His Parents Are From Mexico.. So She Calls Him A Mexican.

I Was Sleeping One Day And He Came Over And My Mommy Answered The Door And Woke Me Up By 'Your Baby's Daddy Is Here' And He Came Over To Talk To My Parents About The Whole Situation... My Parents Were Actually Impressed He Came To My House To Talk About The Pregnancy. He Said He Wanted To Keep It, And Raise The Baby With Me.. And That He'll Be There For Me And Even Take Me To My Appointments After School Or Whenever.. My Parents Were Amazed..

He Said He's Going To Be Moving Out And Asked Me To Move In Whenever He Finds A Place, It'll Be Next Year After The Baby Is Due. . Hes Talking About Marriage, And Its Cute, Cause When I Lay Down He'll Lay Down Next To Me And Kiss My Tummy And Start Talking To The Baby..

But.. Despite That All My Sister Says My Baby Will Have A Sh1t Life And I Need To Abort Or Give It Up For Adoption.. And She Keeps Calling Me A Wh0re.. And Im Not.. I Wish She Would At least Be Nice To Me

I Want To Keep It And So Does Robert..
My Sister Says I Shouldn't
And She's Also Like 'Do You Even Think You'll Marry This Guy'
And I Smiled And She Goes
Wipe That Smile Off Your Face You Know You Never Will This Is All Just Crap.

Whats Her Problem??

Sorry This Is SO Long!

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	casey	09-Dec-08

i wish me and my husband could concieve a baby but where having a very hard time. good luck with your boy toy and baby. my sister is the same way so ddont feel bad. email me if you need more advice.

	~~Crystal~~	01-Dec-08

Well your story sounds kinda like mine and the tv show Secret Life of The American Teenager on your parents getting a divorce and everything. Anyway I have a 13 month old son. I got pregnant at 18 and had him at 19. Now Im 20, engaged and in college. My fiance (my babies daddy) is also hispanic, from Chicago and his parents were from Mexico. He was 17 when we first found out I was pregnant. I was very scared and nervous and my dad and brother would give me a hard time about it. They tought I should give him up for adoption but I just couldnt do it. Now they my son to death. They also would tell me crap about me and my fiancee not gonna ever work out but we have been together for almost 3 years now and still going strong. I think everything worked out for the best and Im sure it will for you too. Families are just like that with unexpected pregnancys at a young age. I think you should do what you want to do. Its your baby and your responsibility not your sisters. Whenever you have your baby your sister will your baby and regret everything she said to you while you were pregnant. By the way I know you wrote this in August but a month is every four weeks and when you were at 15 weeks in August that ment that you were almost 4 months. Now I guess your about 6 months about to go on seven. Anyways goodluck with everything. Just hang in there everything will be ok and work out for the best.

	Amber	30-Sep-08

Im sorry that you are going through everything. But dont listen to your sister. It is your child, and if you want to keep him or her and get married and have a happy life, then you go for it. Dont let her negative attitude change that. I have a 1 year old son. I got pregnant with him when I was 17, (I was already married) and I have enjoyed every minuet of it. Im not going to lie, there will be tough times, but it is all worth it in the end. Congratulations on your little one. If you ever need anything, you can email me. My email is ambergoebel@gmail.com

	Melanie	20-Sep-08

You're sister has a point Did he get you a ring yet? I'd push for it and a wedding date o go along

	Sammi &hearts (im 14 not 19)	14-Sep-08

oops i mean my email is sammydanhon10 1@ mail.com

	Sammi &hearts (im 14 not 19)	21-Aug-08

if you need someone to talk send me an email ok? sammydanhon10 1@ mail.com