Probably Not But Still Worried...

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Probably Not But Still Worried...

I think I might be pregnant, but I'm not sure if it's entirely possible that it could have happened.

My boyfriend and I were fooling around like we do. I gave him oral (first time, not nearly as bad as I though it would be; kind of enjoyable actually but that isn't the point here). Most of the semen was in my mouth; some got on my hand. I kind of wiped my hand off on the blanket/his shirt/whatever was near my hand.

A little while later (anywhere from ten to thirty or so minutes), I went to the bathroom. This is where it gets a little confusing for me. I went to the bathroom and wiped and then life went on. Now, I know that sperm can only live so long outside the body and were probably dead by the time I went to the bathroom. Even if they weren't, I wiped my hand off, and the sperm would have had to go from my hand to the toilet paper to my vagina. So that's why I think it's not possible for me to be pregnant.

By the way, I finished my period for May the day before this happened, maybe even earlier that day. But since then, I've been feeling weird; not exactly nauseous but off and I've gained some weight (not a lot, but a few pounds that I can't get rid off) and my period is a bit late. Every time my boyfriend and I mess around, I always get a little paranoid but I cure myself of it because I know that there's no way it could have happened, and my period usually comes within a week or two. I know it would take longer to get my period because I gave him the blow job the day it ended but this is still taking too long.

I don't want to mention it to anyone and freak them out when there is only a slight possibility of me actually being pregnant, and I can't talk to him about it unless I'm sure because there are so many things he's having to deal with right now, he doesn't need me telling him I might be pregnant unless I'm sure. He doesn't need the worry if it's probably nothing. I can't buy a pregnancy test because I have no money, and I can't tell my mom because of pride. She had sex when she was sixteen and is sure I will too. Even though I haven't had sex, it's still the same idea. Someone please make me feel better and tell me there is no way in hell I'm pregnant.

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	SarahAnne	25-Jun-08

The possibility of you being pregnant isn't even slight...its non-existant. - Sperm can't live very long outside of the body environment - Sperm isn't strong enough to swim from a dry paper surface - If your period had just ended, you weren't even fertile Your period could be late for a number of reasons, but one of the most likely is the fact you're stressing yourself out. I don't mean to be harsh, but this needs to be said - you don't sound anywhere near ready enough to be engaging in the things you are doing. Its ok to take a step back & wait until you understand it all more, & are more secure in being able to deal with it. Its likely you'll ignore that though, & so I suggest that you get contraception sorted out - pronto.